KABLA YA KUAMUA KUOLEWA AU KUOA SOMA HAPA

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Kuna athari kubwa kama ni kweli unayeoana naye ni mtu wa kwanza au wa mwisho kuzaliwa ingawa kuna exceptions.
Kama una mchumba ambaye kwao ni mtoto wa mwisho kuzaliwa jambo la msingi ambalo naweza kukushauri ni wewe kuwa tayari for adventures, na kama ni mtoto wa kwanza kuzaliwa basi jiandae kuwa audited kila kitu au kukaliwa au kuongozwa bila kujali ni mwanaume au mwanamke period.

Mtoto wa kwanza kuzaliwa kawaida hujikuta ni kiongozi mahali popote na hupenda kuongoza, kupenda kuhakikisha kila kitu kinaenda vizuri na kama kilivyopangwa maana ndivyo alikuwa anaagizwa na wazazi kwake kuhakikisha wadogo zake wanatii kile ameagizwa;
“Hakikisha wadogo zako wamekula, wametandika kitanda, waosha vyombo, wamefagia uwanja, wamelala mapema nk”.
Mtoto wa mwisho kuzaliwa hujikuta ni mtoto hata akiwa mtu mzima kwa kuwa kwao bado ni mtoto na huwa hana shida na kitu chochote kwani kwake kila kitu ni rahisi na anapenda raha, sherehe na life is easy.

Kila kitu nyumbani kilikuwa ni kwa ajili yake kwa kuwa yeye ndiye mtoto hata baada ya kuwa mtu mzima bado anajiona ni mtoto Ndiyo maana huchelewa hata kuongea, kufanyia vitu mwenyewe kama vile kujua muda wa kula, sehemu ya kuweka nguo, kutandika kitanda, kuoga nk, yeye hujiona ni special kid, ni mtoto wa baba na mama na amekua wakati wazazi wamezoea maisha.
Kwa ujumla tabia za watoto wa kwanza kuzaliwa huwa ni kukaliwa wenzao (controlling, bossy, leading, perfectionist, auditors, no fun, firm and rigid) wengi ni viongozi na watoto wa mwisho kuzaliwa hujiona ni special kid, hujiona mtoto miaka yote, watu wa sherehe, don’t care, easy wengi ni comedians.

Je, inakuwaje wakioana mtoto wa kwanza na mtoto wa mwisho kuzaliwa?
Kama mmoja ni wa kwanza kuzaliwa na mwingine ni wa mwisho kuzaliwa (au mmoja ana tabia ya mtoto wa kwanza kuzaliwa na mwingine tabia ya mtoto wa mwisho kuzaliwa basi ndoa itakuwa nzuri kwani tabia zitawafanya wa-balance.
Uzembe wa mtoto wa mwisho utakomeshwa na mtoto wa kwanza kuzaliwa ambaye hupenda kuongoza na kuhakikisha kila kitu kinakuwa sawa haijalishi ni mke au mume.
Hujasikia mwanamke analalamika kwamba mume wake hakustahili kuoa au kuishi na mke, maana yake ni mtoto wa mwisho na haijalishi amesoma au hajasoma watoto wa mwisho tabia hufanana.

Je, inakuwaje wakioana wote ni watoto wa mwisho au wote watoto wa kwanza kuzaliwa?
Ukweli ni kwamba match ya ndoa ya aina hii huwa inakera sana kwani kama wote ni watoto wa kwanza kuzaliwa kila mmoja atapenda kuwa kiongozi na sidhani kama hiyo meli haitazama. Na wakikutana wote watoto wa mwisho basi ni balaa kwani ndoa itakuwa haina kiongozi na itakuwa ni adventures.
Watoto wengi wa kwanza Ndiyo marais, wachungaji na viongozi mbalimbali na watoto wengi wa mwisho ni ma-MC na comedians.

Watoto wa kwanza kuzaliwa likija suala la sex wanachagua sana na kuwa na utaratibu ambao huchosha (routine sex), pia hufanya sex kama wakaguzi kama vile lazima kuoga kabla ya sex, taa zizimwe, kusiwe na mtu hajalala usingizi within 100m, piga mswaki, usiku tu tena baada ya saa tatu na si baada ya saa nne nk, ni usumbufu.

Bila watoto wa mwisho sherehe huwa hazinogi ingawa wao tatizo lao si kawaida yao kuwahi na kufika on time kwenye sherehe, ingawa watoto wa kwanza kwao ratiba ni muhimu.

Likija suala la siasa first born wengi ni wagombea na wanapenda kuwa viongozi wakati last born ni viongozi wa kuwasemea au kushabikia first born.
Watoto wengi wa kwanza kuzaliwa ni selfish, wachoyo, hawatoi vitu kirahisi bila maelezo ya kutosha, wakati wale wa mwisho ni easy, ni rahisi, hugawa ovyo si wachoyo ni watu wa to have fun.

Kumbuka kama unaoana na mtoto wa mwisho kuzaliwa hakikisha huweki matarajio makubwa sana kwani kwake ndoa ni jambo la kawaida tu naamini wale ambao tayari mpo kwenye ndoa mnafahamu hili kwani mmmeshakutana na maajabu ya kutosha.
Pia mimi ni mmoja ya watoto wa katikati (middle) hivyo sisi ni waasi (rebels) hatutaki tabia zenu ninyi watoto wa mwisho (don’t care) na ninyi watoto wa kwanza kuzaliwa (controlling) Ndiyo maana tunajua kuboko cha mtoto wa mwisho kuzaliwa ni mtoto wa kwanza kuzaliwa ingawa mkioana na sisi watoto wa mwisho hatuna shida ndoa inaenda tu maana tunawajua sana.

Anyway ninyi watoto wa kwanza kuzaliwa ni muhimu sana kwetu maana bia ninyi ndoa zingekuwa za kizembe sana, na ninyi watoto wa mwisho ni muhimu sana maana bia nyingi ndo haziwi na sherehe wala “to have fun”, ila mmezidi yaani hata kumaliza kupaka nyumba rangi unalilia sherehe?

Source: Mbilinyi Blog

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SUPER FUND PULLS OUT OF GLOBAL GOLD MINER

New Zealand’s $22-billion Superannuation Fund has pulled nearly $2 million worth of investment out of Barrick Gold, the world’s biggest gold miner citing its human rights and environmental record.

The Canada-based mining giant, which has a market capitalisation of C$21b (NZ$25b), didn’t meet the human rights and environmental standards of the UN Global Compact, said Anne-Maree O’Connor, the fund’s manager for responsible investment.

“Barrick’s mines in Papua New Guinea and Tanzania have experienced a series of security-related, environmental and community problems over a lengthy time period,” she said.

While the company had taken steps to make improvements, there was no practical remedy for the environmental impact of riverine tailings, and the fund’s view was that progress on resolving community grievances and security issues had been slow, she said.

The use of riverine tailings – disposing of mine wastes into rivers – breached international norms.

The Super Fund has sold the $1.8m of Barrick Gold shares and $78,824 in shares of African Barrick Gold shares from its global equity portfolio, it said in a statement.

Its decision follows a move by the Norwegian Pension Fund in 2009 to drop Barrick Gold on ethical grounds. The Norwegian fund cited Barrick’s involvement in the Porgera gold mine in Papua New Guinea, Mining Journal Online reported at the time.

Shares of Barrick Gold last traded at C$21.11 on the Toronto Stock Exchange and have declined 44 per cent in the past 12 months.

In December, the Super Fund said it had excluded three Israeli companies from its portfolio on ethical grounds because of their involvement in illegal settlements and the security wall.

SOURCE:- By AAP

http://money.msn.co.nz/businessnews/national/8657749/super-fund-pulls-out-of-global-gold-miner

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